mr. speaker , you have heard all the legal arguments , all the moral arguments .  we see these things differently , and i understand that .  i am here to speak for myself .  i have a living will that i wrote years ago , and i will check it myself as many americans will .  the bottom line is , i do not want you interfering with my wife and me .  leave us alone .  let us make our own decisions .  it is not up to you .  that has always been the way it has been in this country , and that is the way it should be .  for 6 years i have been hearing how the nuclear family is all we care about .  now we do not .  stay out of my family .  if you can do it here , you can do it to me .  you can do it to every one of my constituents .  leave us alone .  let my nuclear family make my decisions and my wife 's decisions without your input .  